Question and answer “about THIS”: is there one “other half”, or does God give a choice?

Answer, Valentin Sviontek: If people ask the question – is it possible to get married a second time, then it is clear that God has no such concept as “the only one”.

The moment here is very important, so that everyone correctly understands the position – a man chooses a girlfriend in life, he is looking for her. But a woman can reciprocate. She may agree to marry him or not. She should already weigh all the other pros and cons.

There is an old story. In a small Pentecostal church, a guy had a prophetic gift and he served in many churches. One day, arriving at church, he saw a girl whom he really liked. And, as always, he asked God: “Lord, will you bless me with her?” And, of course, the answer was: “My son, I bless you.” He quickly started planning the wedding, but due to his ministry he went to one, another, third place… And so he ended up in another church, served there, and then again another sister entered his mind and he was shocked – how could it be so, he likes this one and that one?.. He again turned to God with these questions: “What about this one?” “And with her I will bless you.” He said: “I don’t understand, Lord… with whom will You bless me?” And God answered: “With the one with whom you can live with. It’s your choice and what you work with.”

Family is where you work, where you will always need to fix everything and solve all the issues that arise. God blesses, and our task is to work on our relationships.

Seminar “About this” at the KEMO retreat, 08/28/2013

Source: https://ieshua.org/vopros-otvet-pro-eto-sushhestvuet-li-odna-vtoraya-polovinka-ili-bog-daet-vybor.htm

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